It’s Okay to be Honest
hon·est
/ˈänəst/
adjective
free of deceit and untruthfulness; sincere.
Such a simple concept, yet so difficult to execute. Due to this fact, we often find ourselves putting our foot into our mouths whenever we try to be honest. The experience of receiving a negative response to a truthful statement is discouraging. Thus, it is natural to commit to saying what is best, but not always to what is true. But is there ever a scenario where what is best said is a better response than the truth?
Courage
cour·age
/ˈkərij/
noun
the ability to do something that frightens one.
"she called on all her courage to face the ordeal"
strength in the face of pain or grief.
"he fought his illness with great courage"
I’m told that “being honest with yourself takes courage. Once you’ve done that, you’ll find the courage, to be honest with others.” When we explore past honest experiences, let's assume the POV (Point-of-View) of the negative responder.
It’s difficult to hear the truth about yourself.
It’s a fair assumption that the negative responder did not have the courage, to be honest with a truthful statement. Although a natural fear, this can be very dangerous if not conquered.
"The Seven Deadly Sins: Vanity" by James Todd
Now, let’s be honest.
You can’t always be honest with everyone.
Like all things, there is a time and a place, but most importantly there is a who factor in this equation. First, we have to have the courage to be honest with ourselves. “You’ll laugh at your fears when you realize who you really are.” Second, find those who will be honest with you. Creating these internal and external atmospheres of truth makes such a simple concept so simple to execute.